Back when I first moved out in my early 20’s, I seemed to live on almost nothing, but I always had enough. As I got older, and desired more things and had greater expectations, it was then I discovered I never seemed to have enough. In my early 20’s, after the bills were paid I generally had $10 a week for food, and $5.00 left over for fun. It was tight, but I rarely felt broke. Sure there were times I wish I could go out to dinner, or get a nice outfit, but commonly I just did not focus on what I did not have.
When I hit my early 30’s and started making decent money for the first time, it was then, that I started to travel, buy nice clothes, and eat out a great deal more. I’m amazed how many times in the recent past I’ve felt bummed, when I didn’t have money to take that trip, go out with friends or just buy that nice something or other.
It was then that I remembered what my early 20’s was like. There was no need to spend money to enjoy life. Sure, it’s gratifying at times to buy that item you have been eying for a while; On the other hand, life can be just as much fun doing things that do not cost a penny. Like taking a pleasant stroll in the park, or playing with your pet. I’ve even found it cheaper and more enjoyable to have my friends come over. I cook a little something, perhaps they bring a bottle of wine or desert, however at the end of the day we all spend mere dollars instead of dropping $30-$50 on an evening out.
So, I guess if I had to sum it up, what I really learned is the 'I'm lacking', mind-set is merely a state of mind. I now make an effort to focus on all things I do have and all the blessings God continues to grate me daily.
